Crafting Your Dream Wedding: Solution Focused Hypnotherapy for Confidence, Speeches, Joy, and Stress Resilience. Say “I do” to hypnotherapy!

Hey there, soon-to-be-wedded rockstars! As your Solution Focused Hypnotherapist, let's dive into how hypnotherapy can be your magical sidekick in tackling wedding anxiety, boosting confidence, and ensuring your journey to the big day is as stress-free as a catnap in a sunbeam.

We're here to tackle those wedding nerves, kick public speaking fear/ jitters to the curb, and guide you on how to look and feel your absolute best on your wedding day. It really is a key wedding service and what you need to think about to make your wedding day amazing!

Ready for this awesome adventure, as we craft the best version of each participant, whether you’re a bride, groom, or a fabulous mix of both, parents of the brides, the best man or women.. Everyone can benefit from the power of hypnotherapy.

Understanding Wedding Jitters

Embarking on the rollercoaster ride to "I do" often comes with its share of challenges—public speaking fears (the speech!), image concerns (all eyes on you), and pre-wedding stress (so much to do!!). But worry not, my soon-to-be-wedded warriors, as we unpack the antidote for these common worries, tailored to the unique goals of each wedding participant.

Therapy to Help Wedding Nerves

Navigating wedding nerves is like learning to ride a unicycle—tricky but totally doable! Solution Focused Hypnotherapy is the chill pill you need. Let's focus on cultivating how each participant wants to feel and think, so you can strut down that aisle feeling like a rockstar and not a nervous Nellie. Unnecessary anxiety and stress is not invited to this wedding.

The Stress Bucket (Yes, we said bucket)

Imagine your brain as a bucket filling up with all the stressful things to do… worries etc etc and stress as the unwelcome glitter of wedding planning—it tends to get everywhere. Solution Focused Hypnotherapy is the clean-up crew, vacuuming away stress like it's confetti at a party. Say sayonara to wedding nerves by focusing on the positive, changing your neural pathways and let us guide you through this transformative process.

Navigating Public Speaking Nerves

Public speaking at a wedding i.e the best man’s speech or parents speech? It's like facing a dragon, but fear not! With Solution Focused Hypnotherapy, we'll sprinkle a bit of magic dust on your nerves and teach you to reframe thoughts into confident, authentic speeches. Say goodbye to public speaking fear / jitters and hello to the spotlight, where you'll shine brighter than a disco ball!

Embracing Inner Confidence, Looking and Feeling Your Best on Your Wedding Day.

Feeling the pressure to meet societal expectations? Hypnotherapy is your backstage pass to boosting self-esteem without forcing a "way of being." It's about helping the bride or groom or even participant achieve their goals, whether it's about weight management or simply feeling fabulous in your own skin. Cue the confetti cannons!

As you gear up for this new chapter of life, let's turn the page to a best-seller—the best version of yourself! It's a fresh start, a new beginning, and everyone deserves to enter this chapter feeling and being their absolute best.

Solution Focused Hypnotherapy is the guide to achieving this, ensuring that each participant feels better and is better, as they embark on this joyous journey!

A Double Whammy… The Wedding Planner & The Hypnotherapist for Wedding Wonders!

A wedding planner and a hypnotherapist form the ultimate dream team in the lead-up to the big day, combining organisational prowess with mental well-being expertise.

The wedding planner excels in orchestrating the myriad details of the event, ensuring seamless logistics and turning visions into reality.

On the other side, the hypnotherapist brings a unique skill set to manage the emotional rollercoaster that often accompanies wedding preparations and the big day itself.

From conquering wedding jitters and speech anxiety to fostering confidence and stress resilience, the hypnotherapist ensures that the couple and their entourage step into the celebration with calm minds and joyful hearts.

Having recently tied the knot in August 2023, my husband Elliot and I enlisted the expertise of Dani at Acorn + Oak to orchestrate the magic of our wedding day.

As a hypnotherapist, I'm well-versed in the significance of managing my own mental health, making the decision to invest in a wedding planner a 'no brainer.'

Even as someone accustomed to the calming benefits of hypnotherapy, being the center of attention, especially in uncharted territory (my first wedding), had me a tad apprehensive. It’s only natural!

With all eyes on me, a first-time groom, it was a peculiar sensation. Yet, as evidenced in the blog photo capturing my husband and me, you can see the joy in my eyes - no stress in sight, because I did the work on myself on the lead up! Which paid off!

The process was remarkably stress-free, and I reveled in the joy of the day, even during an unexpected power outage. Instead of stressing, I seized the opportunity for some atmospheric photo shots, a brilliant idea from our fantastic photographer, Andrew Dawson at Andrew Dawson Photography - I was confident and calm!

Together, a dynamic duo of Wedding Planner and Hypnotherapist creates a harmonious synergy, offering not just a flawlessly executed event but also a serene and joy-filled journey for the soon-to-be-wedded couple and their loved ones.

It's a partnership that addresses both the tangible and intangible aspects, ensuring that the road to "I do" is as delightful as the day itself!

Hypno-Happiness - 8-12 Sessions of Self-Discovery

To unlock the full benefits of Solution Focused Hypnotherapy, consider on average of 8-12 sessions—an investment in self-discovery, providing each participant with positive suggestions, visualisations, and coping mechanisms tailored to your unique goals and desires.

Your wedding day is a celebration of love, joy, and new beginnings. Solution Focused Hypnotherapy is your guide to a serene and joy-filled celebration with a sprinkle of calm, contentment and control.

Banish wedding nerves, conquer public speaking nerves / jitters, and dance through your wedding day like nobody's watching.

Craft the wedding day you've always envisioned—a day of bliss, surrounded by those you love most.

Say "I do" to therapy so you can actually remember saying "I do." Trust me, your wedding album will thank you. Cheers to therapy, making your wedding day a blockbuster, not a horror flick 🥂


Want to find out more about how hypnotherapy can help you and your wedding party on the lead up to the big day?

The next step is booking a FREE 45 Minute Initial Consultation / Hypnotherapy Discovery Session (no half-measures here).

In-person at my Oxfordshire Therapy Room (Upper Heyford, near Bicester or Online via Zoom).


The first step to setting yourself free and living the life you want.

It's perfectly normal to feel a bit apprehensive when reaching out to a therapist for more information. Taking this step is a powerful choice, and I want you to know that it's absolutely okay to feel that way. I’m here to provide support and guidance every step of the way.


My name is Andy Selway (he/him) and I am a fully qualified Clinical Solution Focused Hypnotherapist and Psychotherapist. I run HeadFirst Hypnotherapy®, based in Upper Heyford (near Bicester), Oxfordshire. 

I assist people in regaining control of their lives by retraining their brains to overcome limiting thought patterns, master their emotions, and cultivate resilient behaviors for a brighter and more positive future.. I know… It’s awesome!

In a nutshell, I ‘get you out of your own way’. Because, let’s face it, a lot of us are.

Solution Focused Hypnotherapy taps into the power of your subconscious mind so you can move forward towards the life you’ve always wanted to live. It’s a quick, practical way to address thought patterns, emotions and behaviours that are holding you back in life.

I’m a member of the Association for Solution Focused Hypnotherapy and National Council for Hypnotherapy.

Hypnotherapy sessions can be done either in my garden therapy room in Upper Heyford, Oxfordshire (Near Bicester), therefore easy driving distance from Berkshire, Buckinghamshire, Northamptonshire and Warwickshire, but I also work online nationally via Zoom.

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